ORGANIZING FINANCES
POSITIVITY AND HEALTH
“Optimism is the most important human trait, because it allows us to evolve our ideas, to improve our situation, and to hope for a better tomorrow.” – Seth Godin [American Author]
HEALTH
Our minds are powerful tools for creating health and wellness. While studies haven’t identified precisely why positive people are healthier, researchers suspect that it is because people who are more positive process stress better and move through hard situations more easily. Negative attitudes and feelings of helplessness can create chronic stress, which can, in turn, damage the immune system. Anger and hostility are related to health conditions such as high blood pressure, cardiovascular disease, digestive disorders, and increased instances of infection. Surprisingly, the tendency toward a positive or negative outlook does have a genetic component. However, this doesn’t mean that people can’t improve their outlooks. Some tips to improve your outlook include:
- Smile more. Even fake smiling can reduce heart rate and blood pressure during stressful situations.
- Practice reframing. Instead of stressing about a current situation, try to find a positive aspect to it.
- Build resiliency. Having friends and family nearby to share the situation with, accepting that change is a part of life and finding new ways to adapt, and feeling like you have the control to change the current situation are all ways to embrace whatever life throws your way.
- Share your feelings. Often, we spend too much time in our heads. Sharing our feelings with a trusted other can help find a different way to look at a situation. If others are mired in their current negative situations, encourage them to share their fears.
Source: Johns Hopkins Medicine. University of Minnesota, and University of Wisconsin Health
While loved ones might resist the idea of optimistic thinking, there are health reasons to ask them to reconsider. Positive thinking can lead to:
- Better sleep
- Increased life span
- Lower levels of distress
- Lower rates of depression
- Greater resistance to the common cold
- Better cardiovascular health
- Better coping skills during extreme hardship
Tips for Creating a More Positive Outlook
- Get better sleep.
- Take a walk outside.
- Follow a healthy lifestyle.
- Practice positive self-talk.
- Surround yourself with positive people.
- Be open to humor or create a place for smiling and laughing every day.
- Consciously work on experiencing three positive emotions for every negative one.
- Actively evaluate your self-talk at various points during the day to see how you’re doing.
Source Mayo Clinic and University of Wisconsin Health
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POSITIVITY AND HEALTH
HEALTH
Are you a negative or positive thinker?
Listen to your own self-talk- that endless stream of unspoken thoughts that goes through your head. Some forms of negative self-talk to watch out for include:
- Filtering. This means magnifying the negative aspects of a situation and not acknowledging the positive. For example: Your loved one had a good night’s sleep, a fun phone call with their grandchild, and took a walk on a beautifully sunny day outside. But then they tripped and fell with minor injuries. At the end of the day, did they say it was a “bad” day because of the fall or a “good” day because of the rest?
- Personalizing. When something bad occurs, you or your loved one automatically takes the blame. Sometimes no one is to blame.
- Catastrophizing. You or your loved one uses language that makes things out to be much worse than they are, or assumes that because one bad thing happened, it’s all downhill from there. Single events in the day are rarely the “worst” or “most horrific.”
- Polarizing. You or your loved one sees things as either good or bad and not the huge gray area in the middle. This leads to feeling like one is only perfect or a failure; healthy or dying tomorrow, capable or completely incapacitated.
If you are seeing these tendencies in your loved one, you should take care to address the subject, as they are more likely to see it as an attack and apply all of the above thought processes to that interaction.
Source: Mayo Clinic
Positive Self-Talk
- Affirm daily what is good about you.
- Remove the words “never” and “always.”
- Express gratitude – either aloud or in your head.
- If you make a mistake, take a moment to forgive yourself.
- Don’t say anything to yourself that you wouldn’t say to someone else.
Source: Mayo Clinic
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POSITIVITY AND HEALTH
TELEVISION AND SENIORS
ACTIVITIES
It might surprise you to learn that older adults watch more television than younger people do. Watching TV comprises most of the leisure time for adults aged 70 to 105 years old. Television can be an avenue to learning new things, connecting with the world, creating a diversion, and providing some light entertainment. However, it can also supplant physical or recreational activities and real-world interactions.
Pluses and Minuses
If you are mindful, there are certainly benefits to TV for our older adults. As they become less able to go out to movies, concerts, or spectator sports, TV can fill this void. While some sitcoms and light viewing can help to relieve depression, sometimes the news or similar shows can make a depressed mood worse. It is important to pay attention to what our loved ones are watching and find a suitable balance.
The most notable down-side to excessive TV watching is some decrease in mobility. In general, a sedentary lifestyle choice can be detrimental to bone health, cellular/immunity function, and cardiovascular efficiency. Excessive TV use has been linked with a greater risk for Type 2 diabetes, obesity, lower life satisfaction, and an increased risk for dementia. Excessive TV viewing has also been linked with cognitive decline. This can be because viewers are not spending as much time doing things that can keep their minds sharp such as reading, playing board games, talking with friends and relatives, or working on puzzles. If they eagerly engage in conversation with you during a show, it can be an indication to you that they are simply using the TV to pass time and would prefer another outlet. It can help both you as the caregiver and your loved one to spark conversations based on the shows they are watching. Use open ended questions like “What decision would you have made in that situation?” or “When was the last time you did x activity?” or “Who does that character remind you of?”. You can also use a board game or book that is depicted in a show as a cue to suggest playing that game or start reading that book with your loved one. Source Medical News Today and National Institutes of Health
If TV has become an outlet for your loved one, try to ensure that they are also getting plenty of exercise and movement during the rest of the day. It can be helpful to set up a habit of having them stand up and stretching during commercials or take a walk to another room between shows. Incorporate exercises that can be done from a seated position into their day. On a nice day, suggest a quick walk outside or to a nearby window to watch “reality TV.”
TELEVISION AND SENIORS
What Are They Watching?
If your loved one is spending more than four hours a day watching TV, it is possible that they are simply using it to pass time, rather than to provide practical information or relaxation. If they cannot tell you what they just watched, it might be time to find an activity that is more brain engaging for them. If they insist on using the TV as an activity, perhaps ensure that their programming selection includes some of the following to help keep their spirits up:
- Light-hearted sitcoms
- Uplifting dramas
- Educational programs
- Sports or reality TV
- Movies from when they were young adults
Source: Center for Media Literacy
Where Are They Watching?
While cable TV and network programming continue to be the most accessible, more viewers are turning to streaming, where they have control of what they watch and when. These can be accessed by anyone with an internet connection and the correct hardware. If your loved one has a smart TV, most streaming services can be accessed directly through the TV interface. If you set this up for them, make sure to check the “remember me” box in the setup screen so that your loved one only needs to turn the TV on to watch their favorite shows. If your older adult does not have a smart TV, they will need a separate device to help manage the streaming services. Source Medical Alert Systems
Happiness Quotient
A new study by the University of Maryland concludes that unhappy people watch more TV, while people who describe themselves as very happy spend more time reading and socializing. Analyzing 30-years’ worth of data, the Maryland researchers report that spending time watching television may contribute to viewers’ happiness in the moment, with less positive effects in the long run. Source: Phys.org
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KIDNEY DISEASE HEALTH
KIDNEY DISEASE
What do our kidneys do?
Most people are aware that a major function of the kidneys is to remove waste products, drugs, toxins, and excess fluid from the body. The kidneys are super-efficient organs, filtering almost 200 quarts of fluid every day! This process helps maintain a stable balance of body chemicals enabling our bodies to perform their most basic functions without issue. Our kidneys also regulate the body’s salt, potassium, and acid content, as well as produce hormones that affect the function of other organs such as stimulating red blood cell production, regulating blood pressure, and controlling calcium metabolism.
Source: National Kidney Foundation
HEALTH
Because our kidneys support so many of our body’s functions, it is important to pay attention to their health. Chronic kidney disease, or chronic kidney failure, is a gradual loss of kidney function. As kidneys begin to fail, toxins build up in the body, causing many complications evidenced by some of the following symptoms:
- Nausea
- Vomiting
- Loss of appetite
- Fatigue and weakness
- Sleep problems
- Changes in how much you urinate
- Decreased mental sharpness
- Muscle twitches and cramps
- Swelling of feet and ankles
- Persistent itching
- Chest pain, if fluid builds up around the lining of the heart
- Shortness of breath, if fluid builds up in the lungs
- High blood pressure (hypertension) that’s difficult to control
Unfortunately, most of these symptoms are not specific and can be attributed to several other diseases. Additionally, the symptoms tend to come on slowly, further complicating our ability to notice them in our loved ones. Because the kidneys are highly adaptable and able to compensate for lost function, signs and symptoms may not appear until irreversible damage has occurred.
How to Reduce your Risk of Kidney Disease
- Follow the instructions on over-the-counter pain relievers. Taking too many pain relievers can cause kidney damage.
- Maintain a healthy weight.
- Don’t smoke.
- Work with your doctor to manage other conditions that might lead to kidney damage.
Source: Mayo Clinic

What Can Cause Kidney Disease?
There are several diseases and conditions that can contribute to the likelihood of kidney disease. If your loved one has one of these conditions, it is advisable to ask their doctor to keep an eye out for signs of kidney failure.
- Diabetes
- High blood pressure
- Heart and blood vessel (cardiovascular) disease
- Smoking
- Obesity
- Being African American, Native American or Asian American
- Family history of kidney disease
Source Mayo Clinic
Complications from Kidney Disease
Kidney disease can affect many areas of our loved one’s lives. Some of the complications to watch for include:
- Fluid retention, which could lead to fluid in the lungs
- Cardiovascular disease
- Weak bones and an increased risk of bone fractures
- Anemia
- Difficulty concentrating, personality changes, or seizures
- Decreased immune response
Eating for Kidney Health
In addition to seeing the doctor on a regular basis, there are foods that will contribute to the health of the kidneys. If your loved one is currently healthy, consider eating a diet that:
- Has less than 2300 milligrams of sodium each day
- Has smaller portions of protein
- Consists of fresh rather than processed or pre-packaged foods
- Uses more spices and herbs instead of salt
- Is heart healthy
- Is grilled instead of fried
- Is lower in fat
- Includes alcohol in moderation or not at all
If your loved one already has kidney disease, they will need to eat foods that have less phosphorus and potassium. Too much phosphorus with a poorly functioning kidney can leach calcium from their bones and lead to weak and breakable bones. It can also lead to itchy skin and joint pain. Avoid foods like deli meats, bran and oatmeal cereals, dairy foods, and caramel-colored beverages. Too much potassium with a poorly functioning kidney can lead to heart disease. Avoid foods like salt or salt substitutes, canned fruits and vegetables, oranges, potatoes, brown and wild rice, beans and nuts.
Source: National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases

Some Facts about Chronic Kidney Disease (CKD)
- 37 million American adults have CKD.
- Early detection can help prevent the progression of kidney disease to kidney failure.
- Heart disease is the major cause of death for all people with CKD.
- Hypertension causes CKD and CKD causes hypertension.
- Persistent proteinuria (protein in the urine) means CKD is present.
- High risk groups include those with diabetes, hypertension, and family history of kidney failure.
- African Americans, Hispanics, Pacific Islanders, American Indians, and seniors are at increased risk.
Source National Kidney Foundation
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BENEFITS OF YOGA HEALTH
POSITIVITY AND HEALTH
“Optimism is the most important human trait, because it allows us to evolve our ideas, to improve our situation, and to hope for a better tomorrow.” – Seth Godin [American Author]
HEALTH
Our minds are powerful tools for creating health and wellness. While studies haven’t identified precisely why positive people are healthier, researchers suspect that it is because people who are more positive process stress better and move through hard situations more easily. Negative attitudes and feelings of helplessness can create chronic stress, which can, in turn, damage the immune system. Anger and hostility are related to health conditions such as high blood pressure, cardiovascular disease, digestive disorders, and increased instances of infection. Surprisingly, the tendency toward a positive or negative outlook does have a genetic component. However, this doesn’t mean that people can’t improve their outlooks. Some tips to improve your outlook include:
- Smile more. Even fake smiling can reduce heart rate and blood pressure during stressful situations.
- Practice reframing. Instead of stressing about a current situation, try to find a positive aspect to it.
- Build resiliency. Having friends and family nearby to share the situation with, accepting that change is a part of life and finding new ways to adapt, and feeling like you have the control to change the current situation are all ways to embrace whatever life throws your way.
- Share your feelings. Often, we spend too much time in our heads. Sharing our feelings with a trusted other can help find a different way to look at a situation. If others are mired in their current negative situations, encourage them to share their fears.
Source: Johns Hopkins Medicine. University of Minnesota, and University of Wisconsin Health
While loved ones might resist the idea of optimistic thinking, there are health reasons to ask them to reconsider. Positive thinking can lead to:
- Better sleep
- Increased life span
- Lower levels of distress
- Lower rates of depression
- Greater resistance to the common cold
- Better cardiovascular health
- Better coping skills during extreme hardship
Tips for Creating a More Positive Outlook
- Get better sleep.
- Take a walk outside.
- Follow a healthy lifestyle.
- Practice positive self-talk.
- Surround yourself with positive people.
- Be open to humor or create a place for smiling and laughing every day.
- Consciously work on experiencing three positive emotions for every negative one.
- Actively evaluate your self-talk at various points during the day to see how you’re doing.
Source Mayo Clinic and University of Wisconsin Health
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POSITIVITY AND HEALTH
HEALTH
Are you a negative or positive thinker?
Listen to your own self-talk- that endless stream of unspoken thoughts that goes through your head. Some forms of negative self-talk to watch out for include:
- Filtering. This means magnifying the negative aspects of a situation and not acknowledging the positive. For example: Your loved one had a good night’s sleep, a fun phone call with their grandchild, and took a walk on a beautifully sunny day outside. But then they tripped and fell with minor injuries. At the end of the day, did they say it was a “bad” day because of the fall or a “good” day because of the rest?
- Personalizing. When something bad occurs, you or your loved one automatically takes the blame. Sometimes no one is to blame.
- Catastrophizing. You or your loved one uses language that makes things out to be much worse than they are, or assumes that because one bad thing happened, it’s all downhill from there. Single events in the day are rarely the “worst” or “most horrific.”
- Polarizing. You or your loved one sees things as either good or bad and not the huge gray area in the middle. This leads to feeling like one is only perfect or a failure; healthy or dying tomorrow, capable or completely incapacitated.
If you are seeing these tendencies in your loved one, you should take care to address the subject, as they are more likely to see it as an attack and apply all of the above thought processes to that interaction.
Source: Mayo Clinic
Positive Self-Talk
- Affirm daily what is good about you.
- Remove the words “never” and “always.”
- Express gratitude – either aloud or in your head.
- If you make a mistake, take a moment to forgive yourself.
- Don’t say anything to yourself that you wouldn’t say to someone else.
Source: Mayo Clinic
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